My friend's husband passed away last week. I haven't written anything, because I didn't know what to say. I was shocked, to say the very least. Brian had some health problems, but no one should be a widow at 26 with 3 small children. It's so unfair. I wanted to go to Arizona just to show my love and support for her, and I can't go. That totally frustrates me. Renee found a relatively cheap airfare, but I just can't swing it right now. Plus, it's Mother's Day weekend, and my birthday is on Sunday, and I have to work Sunday night through Thursday and the funeral is on Monday. Kind of pisses me off. I'd like to be there to be supportive of someone who I really care about (even though we've never met). Life sucks sometimes. For all of us, for different reason.